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dLove, love dKids, dKids, love dKing! But Child abuse is real! Not only do parents beat their children and put them through trauma. They also take them trick or treating, and put them through even more trauma by scaring the fuck out of these kids. What kid of sick ass parent is y’all to take your kid to a place to scared them. And put them through trauma. Eye heard this pass halloween. It had a kid that told his mother that he didn’t wouldn’t go trick or treating, and she made him go anyway. What kind of sick shit is that. Obviously, the child is scared but the sick as pay-rent made em go anyway. That’s sad, just because some of theses kids don’t look fucking scared doesn’t mean mean that their are not. You sick fuck!!!! Poor #Baby #Babe #Babies #Kids #Children #Girls #Boys #Abuse #ChildAbuse #Halloween #Trauma #Mothers #Fathers #Mothersday #FathersDay #SaveTheChildren

dLove, love dKids, dKids, love dKing! But Child abuse is real! Not only do parents beat their children and put them through trauma. They also take them trick or treating, and put them through even more trauma by scaring the fuck out of these kids. What kid of sick ass parent is y’all to take your kid to a place to scared them. And put them through trauma. Eye heard this pass halloween. It had a kid that told his mother that he didn’t wouldn’t go trick or treating, and she made him go anyway. What kind of sick shit is that. Obviously, the child is scared but the sick as pay-rent made em go anyway. That’s sad, just because some of theses kids don’t look fucking scared doesn’t mean mean that their are not. You sick fuck!!!! Poor #Baby #Babe #Babies #Kids #Children #Girls #Boys #Abuse #ChildAbuse #Halloween #Trauma #Mothers #Fathers #Mothersday #FathersDay #SaveTheChildren

2 0 15 minutes ago
dLove, love dKids, dKids, love dKing! But Child abuse is real! Not only do parents beat their children and put them through trauma. They also take them trick or treating, and put them through even more trauma by scaring the fuck out of these kids. What kid of sick ass parent is y’all to take your kid to a place to scared them. And put them through trauma. Eye heard this pass halloween. It had a kid that told his mother that he didn’t wouldn’t go trick or treating, and she made him go anyway. What kind of sick shit is that. Obviously, the child is scared but the sick as pay-rent made em go anyway. That’s sad, just because some of theses kids don’t look fucking scared doesn’t mean mean that their are not. You sick fuck!!!! Poor #Baby #Babe #Babies #Kids #Children #Girls #Boys #Abuse #ChildAbuse #Halloween #Trauma #Mothers #Fathers #Mothersday #FathersDay #SaveTheChildren

dLove, love dKids, dKids, love dKing! But Child abuse is real! Not only do parents beat their children and put them through trauma. They also take them trick or treating, and put them through even more trauma by scaring the fuck out of these kids. What kid of sick ass parent is y’all to take your kid to a place to scared them. And put them through trauma. Eye heard this pass halloween. It had a kid that told his mother that he didn’t wouldn’t go trick or treating, and she made him go anyway. What kind of sick shit is that. Obviously, the child is scared but the sick as pay-rent made em go anyway. That’s sad, just because some of theses kids don’t look fucking scared doesn’t mean mean that their are not. You sick fuck!!!! Poor #Baby #Babe #Babies #Kids #Children #Girls #Boys #Abuse #ChildAbuse #Halloween #Trauma #Mothers #Fathers #Mothersday #FathersDay #SaveTheChildren

0 0 19 minutes ago
#Narcissists are subtle in the way they #abuse. Sometimes it's hard to put a finger on the abuse because it's little things that add up.

#Narcissists are subtle in the way they #abuse. Sometimes it's hard to put a finger on the abuse because it's little things that add up.

0 0 24 minutes ago
🚫Just Say No To... Abuse,
All the Darkness in this world 🌎
Diffuse negative behaviors
“Empower 💗Love and Light 💡”
@angel888paints 
#JSN2 #Abuse
 #AbusiveBehavior #PhysicalAbuse #SexualAbuse #MentalAbuse #VerbalAbuse

🚫Just Say No To... Abuse,
All the Darkness in this world 🌎
Diffuse negative behaviors
“Empower 💗Love and Light 💡”
@angel888paints
#JSN2 #Abuse
#AbusiveBehavior #PhysicalAbuse #SexualAbuse #MentalAbuse #VerbalAbuse

0 1 34 minutes ago
A king doesn’t put his hands on his Queen. This shirts comes in a few colors. Link in bio #abuse #respect #relationships #kingandqueen #unisextees #womentees #mentees #womenclothing #menclothing #tshirts #loveandotherthings #linkinbio

A king doesn’t put his hands on his Queen. This shirts comes in a few colors. Link in bio #abuse #respect #relationships #kingandqueen #unisextees #womentees #mentees #womenclothing #menclothing #tshirts #loveandotherthings #linkinbio

0 1 36 minutes ago
This!
Reposted from @brad_mcleod. Some numbers I found on this topic where alarming. 👉 There is a clear and distinct correlation between child trauma and drug and alcohol addiction. The traumatic incidents that we experience in our childhood very easily can, and often do, wind up following us into maturity creating a variety of long-term mental health issues that may causes us to self-medicate through excessive drinking or drug abuse. The National Institutes of Health (NIH) report that more than a third of adolescents with a report of abuse or neglect will have a substance use disorder before they reach their 18th birthday.
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#addiction #epidemic #childhoodtrauma #youcanrecover #abuse #neglect #alcohol #drugabuse #bradmcleod

This!
Reposted from @brad_mcleod. Some numbers I found on this topic where alarming. 👉 There is a clear and distinct correlation between child trauma and drug and alcohol addiction. The traumatic incidents that we experience in our childhood very easily can, and often do, wind up following us into maturity creating a variety of long-term mental health issues that may causes us to self-medicate through excessive drinking or drug abuse. The National Institutes of Health (NIH) report that more than a third of adolescents with a report of abuse or neglect will have a substance use disorder before they reach their 18th birthday.
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#addiction #epidemic #childhoodtrauma #youcanrecover #abuse #neglect #alcohol #drugabuse #bradmcleod

3 0 37 minutes ago
Spider man far from home was just a end credit scene for endgame .
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#memesdaily #meme #memes #abuse  #wholesomememes #edgy #memelord #edgymeme #edgymemes #dankmeme #dankmemes  #joke #followme  #godleft  #wtf #offensive #offensivememes #omg #lmao #lmfao #humor #dailymemes #savage #followme #funny #laughs 
#Relatable #funnymeme #funnymemes

Spider man far from home was just a end credit scene for endgame .





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#memesdaily #meme #memes #abuse #wholesomememes #edgy #memelord #edgymeme #edgymemes #dankmeme #dankmemes #joke #followme #godleft #wtf #offensive #offensivememes #omg #lmao #lmfao #humor #dailymemes #savage #followme #funny #laughs
#Relatable #funnymeme #funnymemes

10 0 54 minutes ago
I forgive you 🕊
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Without you I wouldn’t be where I am now.
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I wouldn’t have learnt all the things I needed to in order to become whole.
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I wouldn’t have known that I didn’t have any boundaries whatsoever.
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I wouldn’t have realised I didn’t love myself.
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So thank you abuser.
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You set me on my journey on becoming the badass that I am today.
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Able to set boundaries without guilt.
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Cultivating self love from within.
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Realising my worth has no price.
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Thank you.
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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#abuse #breakyoursilence #speakyourtruth #forgiveness #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #breakthesilence #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lightworker #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

I forgive you 🕊
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Without you I wouldn’t be where I am now.
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I wouldn’t have learnt all the things I needed to in order to become whole.
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I wouldn’t have known that I didn’t have any boundaries whatsoever.
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I wouldn’t have realised I didn’t love myself.
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So thank you abuser.
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You set me on my journey on becoming the badass that I am today.
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Able to set boundaries without guilt.
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Cultivating self love from within.
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Realising my worth has no price.
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Thank you.
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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#abuse #breakyoursilence #speakyourtruth #forgiveness #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #breakthesilence #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lightworker #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

152 13 54 minutes ago
I cannot tell you how many people come to me thinking that they are regressing rather than making progress on their journey to emotional wellness! They fear that they are failing or broken because they are so uncomfortable with their emotional response to change.  My standard answer to them and to you is this. If your are uncomfortable, you are working.  That is a good thing...it is an indicator that you are alive and kicking!  You are displaying courage and getting out of your comfort zone to test new waters! You are challenging old belief patterns and following through with some tough but much needed life changes.  You are feeling rough because you are getting out of your comfort zone  trusting that you will in time see the magic happen! And it will! Keep fighting...it's not about perfection. It's about the process 🌺

#womensupportingwomen  #parentalk #abuse #support #narcissist #depression #anxiety #emotionalwellness #fear #selfhelp #selfawareness #instagod #instagood

I cannot tell you how many people come to me thinking that they are regressing rather than making progress on their journey to emotional wellness! They fear that they are failing or broken because they are so uncomfortable with their emotional response to change. My standard answer to them and to you is this. If your are uncomfortable, you are working. That is a good thing...it is an indicator that you are alive and kicking! You are displaying courage and getting out of your comfort zone to test new waters! You are challenging old belief patterns and following through with some tough but much needed life changes. You are feeling rough because you are getting out of your comfort zone trusting that you will in time see the magic happen! And it will! Keep fighting...it's not about perfection. It's about the process 🌺

#womensupportingwomen #parentalk #abuse #support #narcissist #depression #anxiety #emotionalwellness #fear #selfhelp #selfawareness #instagod #instagood

2 0 1 hour ago
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5 0 1 hour ago
Listen to your actions and your reactions. They are symptoms of an unhealthy ecosystem.

Your mind is a garden. When people pretend to love your flowers yet they pluck them so that they can enjoy them until they wilt and die... the same can be said for pretenders who claim to love you yet use you up for whatever they can get out of you and then discard you when you're used up, or when you've had enough and set #healthyboundaries.

You know when you're being taken advantage of, even if you don't want to believe it. And you only have yourself to blame if you continue to allow the #abuse to happen the moment you realize what's really going down.

Don't hesitate to stand up for yourself. #Betrayal comes from those closest to us. It is never easy, but it is necessary to take responsibility, stand your ground, and love yourself enough to not be taken advantage by people who claim to be "#friends" or "#family". To thine ownself be true.

Listen to your actions and your reactions. They are symptoms of an unhealthy ecosystem.

Your mind is a garden. When people pretend to love your flowers yet they pluck them so that they can enjoy them until they wilt and die... the same can be said for pretenders who claim to love you yet use you up for whatever they can get out of you and then discard you when you're used up, or when you've had enough and set #healthyboundaries.

You know when you're being taken advantage of, even if you don't want to believe it. And you only have yourself to blame if you continue to allow the #abuse to happen the moment you realize what's really going down.

Don't hesitate to stand up for yourself. #Betrayal comes from those closest to us. It is never easy, but it is necessary to take responsibility, stand your ground, and love yourself enough to not be taken advantage by people who claim to be " #friends" or " #family". To thine ownself be true.

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#mulher #maquiagembh #makebh  #ciliosposticos #cilios  #esfumado #delineado #batom #beleza #festa  #beauty #embelezamentodoolhar #arrasa #abuse #sobrancelha #maquiadora #make #maquiagem

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#mulher #maquiagembh #makebh #ciliosposticos #cilios #esfumado #delineado #batom #beleza #festa #beauty #embelezamentodoolhar #arrasa #abuse #sobrancelha #maquiadora #make #maquiagem

4 0 1 hour ago
O primeiro passo é acreditar!
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#mulher #maquiagembh #makebh  #ciliosposticos #cilios  #esfumado #delineado #batom #beleza #festa  #beauty #embelezamentodoolhar #arrasa #abuse #sobrancelha #maquiadora #make #maquiagem

O primeiro passo é acreditar!
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📳 31 994125851 Aline Valadares
@valadaresmakeup
Sua satisfação é a minha felicidade ✨
_______________________________

#mulher #maquiagembh #makebh #ciliosposticos #cilios #esfumado #delineado #batom #beleza #festa #beauty #embelezamentodoolhar #arrasa #abuse #sobrancelha #maquiadora #make #maquiagem

2 0 1 hour ago
#Repost from @erinspandorf. If you are experiencing abuse of any kind, you can choose to leave and get help. Remember that you are so loved and so worthy. My heart is with you 💕.
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#poetry #writing #poet #writer #poetryofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #poetsofig #madewords #words #poetrycommunity #poetrylovers #writerslife #poem #poems #poetsociety #instagood #toxic #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #abuse #emotionalabuse

#Repost from @erinspandorf. If you are experiencing abuse of any kind, you can choose to leave and get help. Remember that you are so loved and so worthy. My heart is with you 💕.
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#poetry #writing #poet #writer #poetryofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #poetsofig #madewords #words #poetrycommunity #poetrylovers #writerslife #poem #poems #poetsociety #instagood #toxic #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #abuse #emotionalabuse

8 1 1 hour ago
Everyone has experienced some sort of trauma during their formative years. Maybe you grew up in a wealthy household, but you witnessed domestic abuse. Maybe you had a loving family but were bullied by your peers. Maybe you had access to certain opportunities but health issues prevented you from pursuing them. Whatever the case may be, as adults we can acknowledge the following—everyone is simply trying to heal their wounds and navigate through life as best they can.
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And as you travel along your own life’s journey, you’ll inevitably bump into people who received things, people, experiences, etc. that you never did. And it hurts. Trust me, I know. And while your heart genuinely wants to be happy in other people’s happiness, painful thoughts can still uncontrollably surface...“What would life have been like if my family had been more like my friend’s? How would I have been different if I had gotten X opportunity?”
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You can go down a rabbit hole of “what ifs” and “if onlys” real fast, and honestly…go down it. I know that sounds weird—but do it. Don’t do it forever, but allow your wound to bleed for a bit because that’s how it will scab and eventually heal.
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Remember, the more you resist your feelings the more they’ll persist. And once you’ve given your wounds the permission to bleed—without shame or guilt—you’ll actually feel gratitude for the people whose seemingly good fortune has triggered you to bleed in the first place. Because you’ll realize that these folks have entered your life as a catalyst for YOUR much needed healing.
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They’ve led you to face the uncomfortable emotions you’ve long avoided confronting. And although sitting with these sentiments—bitterness, resentment, anger, pain, sadness—is tough, it’s the only way you’ll be able to eventually detach from them. And once you let go of what no longer serves you, you make room for the new—new love, new opportunities, new experiences that were eagerly waiting to enter your life. All they needed was for you to make space for them ❤️

Everyone has experienced some sort of trauma during their formative years. Maybe you grew up in a wealthy household, but you witnessed domestic abuse. Maybe you had a loving family but were bullied by your peers. Maybe you had access to certain opportunities but health issues prevented you from pursuing them. Whatever the case may be, as adults we can acknowledge the following—everyone is simply trying to heal their wounds and navigate through life as best they can.

And as you travel along your own life’s journey, you’ll inevitably bump into people who received things, people, experiences, etc. that you never did. And it hurts. Trust me, I know. And while your heart genuinely wants to be happy in other people’s happiness, painful thoughts can still uncontrollably surface...“What would life have been like if my family had been more like my friend’s? How would I have been different if I had gotten X opportunity?”

You can go down a rabbit hole of “what ifs” and “if onlys” real fast, and honestly…go down it. I know that sounds weird—but do it. Don’t do it forever, but allow your wound to bleed for a bit because that’s how it will scab and eventually heal.

Remember, the more you resist your feelings the more they’ll persist. And once you’ve given your wounds the permission to bleed—without shame or guilt—you’ll actually feel gratitude for the people whose seemingly good fortune has triggered you to bleed in the first place. Because you’ll realize that these folks have entered your life as a catalyst for YOUR much needed healing.

They’ve led you to face the uncomfortable emotions you’ve long avoided confronting. And although sitting with these sentiments—bitterness, resentment, anger, pain, sadness—is tough, it’s the only way you’ll be able to eventually detach from them. And once you let go of what no longer serves you, you make room for the new—new love, new opportunities, new experiences that were eagerly waiting to enter your life. All they needed was for you to make space for them ❤️

17 3 1 hour ago
With abuse it’s never just one time you usually don’t recognize it right away. It takes time and one day it just happens. You are so disoriented by it and the cunning secrecy in which it was hidden makes you unable to process how it got to that point. You can’t decide on which moment it was that you missed the opportunity to see it. Was there even a moment? Through the murky waters of your manipulated memory you can’t see to the bottom, and can only focus on the reflection of yourself that rest on the top of the still water. It must be you you tell yourself. 
Recovery is never just one time either. It’s never a single moment or one person helping you. It’s takes multiple times of you coming back to the same stagnant water. It takes several times and several different people pointing you in endless directions. 
Take those tiny steps and eventually you’ll find yourself standing in front of an endless ocean full of constant movement, change and possibility. When you are finally there you will realize that before you were just staring into a puddle.
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#abuse #toxicrelationships #lovebombing #abuseawareness #dontbeavictim #endlessocean #reflection #saltlake #youmatter #youarenotalone #mentalhealthmatters #lovebombing #narcawareness #insecurity #healthyboundaries #vulnerabilityisstrength #bevulnerable #vulnerability #courageovercomfort #speakyourtruth #authenticlife

With abuse it’s never just one time you usually don’t recognize it right away. It takes time and one day it just happens. You are so disoriented by it and the cunning secrecy in which it was hidden makes you unable to process how it got to that point. You can’t decide on which moment it was that you missed the opportunity to see it. Was there even a moment? Through the murky waters of your manipulated memory you can’t see to the bottom, and can only focus on the reflection of yourself that rest on the top of the still water. It must be you you tell yourself.
Recovery is never just one time either. It’s never a single moment or one person helping you. It’s takes multiple times of you coming back to the same stagnant water. It takes several times and several different people pointing you in endless directions.
Take those tiny steps and eventually you’ll find yourself standing in front of an endless ocean full of constant movement, change and possibility. When you are finally there you will realize that before you were just staring into a puddle.
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#abuse #toxicrelationships #lovebombing #abuseawareness #dontbeavictim #endlessocean #reflection #saltlake #youmatter #youarenotalone #mentalhealthmatters #lovebombing #narcawareness #insecurity #healthyboundaries #vulnerabilityisstrength #bevulnerable #vulnerability #courageovercomfort #speakyourtruth #authenticlife

0 0 1 hour ago
#LOL OR #DIS #BARRZZZZ @producedbyj SEE WHAT I DO TO YOUR BEATS THIS SHIT IS #ABUSE ALL #BARZ #AFFLO #ALL #FACTS #FLO #SOUF #EAST #FINEST

#LOL OR #DIS #BARRZZZZ @producedbyj SEE WHAT I DO TO YOUR BEATS THIS SHIT IS #ABUSE ALL #BARZ #AFFLO #ALL #FACTS #FLO #SOUF #EAST #FINEST

7 1 1 hour ago
📸 @cityofyarra ✨

A very candid, not-at-all-staged photo of the incredible Mayor of the City of Yarra, Danae Bosler (L), and Emma from Hello Cass (R). Hello Cass was created out of understanding how hard it can be to talk about family and sexual violence. 
Fear, shame, social stigma, language, embarrassment, feeling like you won’t be believed; we know these are just some of the reasons less than a third of abuse is reported or disclosed – and we’re trying to change that.
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If you’ve experienced something – or are worried about someone, we want you to know that we believe you, and help is available.
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Stay strong, and when you’re ready, say hello x
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OK, now for some hashtags… 
#webelieveyou #yesallwomen #intersectionalfeminism #equality #tothegirls #iamanastywoman #sayhername #everydaysexism #youoksis #allmencan #heforshe 
#gbv #pvaw #vaw #domesticviolence #ipv #gender #feminism #feminist #feministaf #abuse #rapeculture  #whyIstayed #rapecultureiswhen #dv #metoo #timesup #girlboss #femalefounder

📸 @cityofyarra

A very candid, not-at-all-staged photo of the incredible Mayor of the City of Yarra, Danae Bosler (L), and Emma from Hello Cass (R). Hello Cass was created out of understanding how hard it can be to talk about family and sexual violence.
Fear, shame, social stigma, language, embarrassment, feeling like you won’t be believed; we know these are just some of the reasons less than a third of abuse is reported or disclosed – and we’re trying to change that.
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If you’ve experienced something – or are worried about someone, we want you to know that we believe you, and help is available.
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Stay strong, and when you’re ready, say hello x
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OK, now for some hashtags…
#webelieveyou #yesallwomen #intersectionalfeminism #equality #tothegirls #iamanastywoman #sayhername #everydaysexism #youoksis #allmencan #heforshe
#gbv #pvaw #vaw #domesticviolence #ipv #gender #feminism #feminist #feministaf #abuse #rapeculture   #whyIstayed #rapecultureiswhen #dv #metoo #timesup #girlboss #femalefounder

14 0 1 hour ago
Please forgive yourself for not knowing you were being abused. Narcissistic abuse is such a slow and insidious process. It’s so subtle you hardly even notice, hence why it can last a lot longer than you could ever imagine 🕊
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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#abuse #breakyoursilence #speakyourtruth #forgiveness #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #breakthesilence #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lightworker #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

Please forgive yourself for not knowing you were being abused. Narcissistic abuse is such a slow and insidious process. It’s so subtle you hardly even notice, hence why it can last a lot longer than you could ever imagine 🕊
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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#abuse #breakyoursilence #speakyourtruth #forgiveness #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #breakthesilence #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lightworker #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

40 10 1 hour ago
Codependents take care of others, often ignoring or tolerating their #abuse, avoiding confrontation, and enabling the “bad” behavior. Read more: http://bit.ly/2r4ssYq

Codependents take care of others, often ignoring or tolerating their #abuse, avoiding confrontation, and enabling the “bad” behavior. Read more: http://bit.ly/2r4ssYq

0 0 1 hour ago
This 15 year old girl was stopped by a man at the Empire Mall. He told her, “Once you’re legal we should bang.” She said that she was so uncomfortable with the situation she wasn’t able to tell her parents. Her parents wouldn’t take it seriously. -✨
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This 15 year old girl was stopped by a man at the Empire Mall. He told her, “Once you’re legal we should bang.” She said that she was so uncomfortable with the situation she wasn’t able to tell her parents. Her parents wouldn’t take it seriously. -✨
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6 0 1 hour ago
If you’ve experienced an extremely stressful or disturbing relationship that’s left you feeling helpless and emotionally out of control, you may have been traumatized. Psychological trauma can leave you struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won’t go away. It can also leave you feeling numb, disconnected, and unable to trust other people. When bad things happen, it can take a while to get over the pain and feel safe again. But with these self-help strategies and support, you can speed up your recovery. Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, you can make healing changes and move on with your life.
#talk2dot #abuse #emotional #emotionalabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #domesticabuse #survival #survivor #women #womenempowerment #woman #relationshipgoals #relationship #relationships #lifecoach #motivationalquotes #motivationalspeakers #wakeupandmakeup #DiGa #dotacheru #trauma #free #escape #psychology #unitedkingdom #usa #help #experience

If you’ve experienced an extremely stressful or disturbing relationship that’s left you feeling helpless and emotionally out of control, you may have been traumatized. Psychological trauma can leave you struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won’t go away. It can also leave you feeling numb, disconnected, and unable to trust other people. When bad things happen, it can take a while to get over the pain and feel safe again. But with these self-help strategies and support, you can speed up your recovery. Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, you can make healing changes and move on with your life.
#talk2dot #abuse #emotional #emotionalabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #domesticabuse #survival #survivor #women #womenempowerment #woman #relationshipgoals #relationship #relationships #lifecoach #motivationalquotes #motivationalspeakers #wakeupandmakeup #DiGa #dotacheru #trauma #free #escape #psychology #unitedkingdom #usa #help #experience

4 2 1 hour ago
#wehavetogetbacktothegarden #gardenofeden seeking #purity from #toxic present.  This message applies again today #revolutionarywar on #racism #hate #war #inequality #abuse #woodstock without #drugs  with #realitycheck #fightforourrights with #brains #integrity #fairness 💜🖤💙❤️

#wehavetogetbacktothegarden #gardenofeden seeking #purity from #toxic present. This message applies again today #revolutionarywar on #racism #hate #war #inequality #abuse #woodstock without #drugs with #realitycheck #fightforourrights with #brains #integrity #fairness 💜🖤💙❤️

24 2 1 hour ago

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I forgive you 🕊
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Without you I wouldn’t be where I am now.
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I wouldn’t have learnt all the things I needed to in order to become whole.
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I wouldn’t have known that I didn’t have any boundaries whatsoever.
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I wouldn’t have realised I didn’t love myself.
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So thank you abuser.
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You set me on my journey on becoming the badass that I am today.
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Able to set boundaries without guilt.
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Cultivating self love from within.
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Realising my worth has no price.
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Thank you.
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I forgive you 🕊
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Without you I wouldn’t be where I am now.
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I wouldn’t have learnt all the things I needed to in order to become whole.
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I wouldn’t have known that I didn’t have any boundaries whatsoever.
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I wouldn’t have realised I didn’t love myself.
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So thank you abuser.
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You set me on my journey on becoming the badass that I am today.
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Able to set boundaries without guilt.
*
Cultivating self love from within.
*
Realising my worth has no price.
*
Thank you.
*
Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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152 13 54 minutes ago
After all it’s always right in the end 🕊
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It just sometimes takes us a little longer to register.
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But in the end your gut knows way before your heart and mind does.
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#abuse #redflags #speakyourtruth #trustyourgut #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #intuition #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lettinggo #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

After all it’s always right in the end 🕊
*
It just sometimes takes us a little longer to register.
*
But in the end your gut knows way before your heart and mind does.
*
Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
*
#abuse #redflags #speakyourtruth #trustyourgut #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #intuition #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lettinggo #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

1,443 33 23 hours ago
TAG A FRIEND
Get this through your head. A coward won't be able to give you the love you deserve. They're incapable of giving you something they're afraid of.

My books are available through the link in my bio.

#MSosa #Coward #Quote

TAG A FRIEND
Get this through your head. A coward won't be able to give you the love you deserve. They're incapable of giving you something they're afraid of.

My books are available through the link in my bio.

#MSosa #Coward #Quote

2,266 25 5 hours ago
People who love you want you to be happy and healthy.
They care about your needs and want to help fulfill your needs.
Love doesn't hurt.
Love doesn't use or abuse.
Love is never about causing pain.
We deserve love, safety, dignity and respect.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario 💜💜💜
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#abuse #childabuse #CPTSD #ComplexPTSD #complextrauma #PTSD #trauma #healing #growth 
#love

People who love you want you to be happy and healthy.
They care about your needs and want to help fulfill your needs.
Love doesn't hurt.
Love doesn't use or abuse.
Love is never about causing pain.
We deserve love, safety, dignity and respect.
~ Lilly Hope Lucario 💜💜💜
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#abuse #childabuse #CPTSD #ComplexPTSD #complextrauma #PTSD #trauma #healing #growth
#love

540 12 17 July, 2019
TAG A FRIEND
I can't stress this enough. STOP looking for an apology from the person that tore you to pieces. The only closure you need is from yourself. I know you want to speak to them because you feel you have so much left to say but sometimes, the less you say is better. You deserve so much more. Give yourself permission to move on.

My books and eBooks are available from the link in my bio.

#MSosa #closure #MoveOn #Quote

TAG A FRIEND
I can't stress this enough. STOP looking for an apology from the person that tore you to pieces. The only closure you need is from yourself. I know you want to speak to them because you feel you have so much left to say but sometimes, the less you say is better. You deserve so much more. Give yourself permission to move on.

My books and eBooks are available from the link in my bio.

#MSosa #closure #MoveOn #Quote

3,352 41 11 hours ago
There is NO easy way around it 🕊
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To heal you need space.
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You need a clear head.
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You need clarity.
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You need to be as far away from the abuser as possible.
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Healing cannot occur whilst you’re still in the same environment that got you here, reading this.
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Once you give yourself the gift of space, your healing will only accelerate.
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Denying yourself this space only prolongs the inevitable.
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Further hurt and abuse.
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
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There is NO easy way around it 🕊
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To heal you need space.
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You need a clear head.
*
You need clarity.
*
You need to be as far away from the abuser as possible.
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Healing cannot occur whilst you’re still in the same environment that got you here, reading this.
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Once you give yourself the gift of space, your healing will only accelerate.
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Denying yourself this space only prolongs the inevitable.
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Further hurt and abuse.
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Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
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#abuse #redflags #speakyourtruth #growth #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusive #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #healingspace #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #peaceofmind #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

1,553 69 17 July, 2019
The SILENT TREATMENT 🕊
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This is a form of punishment the narcissist will inflict on you.
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It is NOT normal or healthy AT ALL.
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You are SO worthy and did not deserve this kind of cruelty.
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Once is ENOUGH.
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The SILENT TREATMENT 🕊
*
This is a form of punishment the narcissist will inflict on you.
*
It is NOT normal or healthy AT ALL.
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You are SO worthy and did not deserve this kind of cruelty.
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Once is ENOUGH.
*
Register for my FREE upcoming Narc-Detachment Video Course
Go to my bio 👉@narc_proof_and_thriving and
❤️ click the link to register ❤️
*
#abuse #breakyoursilence #speakyourtruth #thesilenttreatment #hiddenabuse #toxicrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiveparents #narcissisticparent #narcissisticabuserecovery #abusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #breakthesilence #raiseawareness #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #emotionalabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #survivor #empath #lightworker #intuitivehealer #healer #selflove #codependent #traumabonding #lackofselflove #narcproofandthriving

596 69 18 hours ago
Many complex trauma survivors have been abused in toxic families and/or had relationships with toxic abusive people and have children with them.
We need self compassion for how we adapted and coped with the abuse, because we were/are enduring trauma that should never have been inflicted on us.
At some point, we need to look at how the abuser is keeping us locked in that trauma and what we can do to change.
It takes time and we need patience with ourselves, but try to keep moving towards removing toxicity and not engagjng with it, or trying to 'keep the peace'. There is no 'keeping the peace with toxic people'. They are simply manipulating us to control us.
We must know toxic people are not our responsibility to save or fix.
And we must know - that family is meant to be about love, safety, trust, care and respect.
We deserve healthy families and need strong boundaries from those who are not healthy, who continue to cause harm, who negatively impact our lives and don't show us respect, care and dignity.
And in doing this we increase our self worth and positivity impact our well-being. .
~ Lilly Hope Lucario 💜💜💜
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#lillyhopelucario #healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd I 
#abuse #childabuse #CPTSD #ComplexPTSD #complextrauma #PTSD #trauma #healing #growth #boundaries 
#selfworth #selfcare

Many complex trauma survivors have been abused in toxic families and/or had relationships with toxic abusive people and have children with them.
We need self compassion for how we adapted and coped with the abuse, because we were/are enduring trauma that should never have been inflicted on us.
At some point, we need to look at how the abuser is keeping us locked in that trauma and what we can do to change.
It takes time and we need patience with ourselves, but try to keep moving towards removing toxicity and not engagjng with it, or trying to 'keep the peace'. There is no 'keeping the peace with toxic people'. They are simply manipulating us to control us.
We must know toxic people are not our responsibility to save or fix.
And we must know - that family is meant to be about love, safety, trust, care and respect.
We deserve healthy families and need strong boundaries from those who are not healthy, who continue to cause harm, who negatively impact our lives and don't show us respect, care and dignity.
And in doing this we increase our self worth and positivity impact our well-being. .
~ Lilly Hope Lucario 💜💜💜
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#lillyhopelucario #healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd I
#abuse #childabuse #CPTSD #ComplexPTSD #complextrauma #PTSD #trauma #healing #growth #boundaries
#selfworth #selfcare

825 34 16 July, 2019